Today is Sunday
Yesterday too much task and
activities for my IKM weeks. I am craving for relax no tension,no schedule.
Yesterday, even late i went to pangkalan Ojek for doing the program for
community “free medical check up”.
That was very interesting since many ojek
drivers came and spent their few times for medical check up. Mostly, they came
to consult their headache problem, coughing,itching,even there is one patient
got DM but sadly they can’t get away from their cigarettes. They complain their
symptom but smoke 3 packs of cigarette a day. I told my mate Bumi not to
continue the presentation about cigarette coz really useless at all since cigarette
is one of their identity. I saw it from my own eyes,…the patient with DM. After
we checked the blood pressure, history taking and educated him about quit smoking,
start healthy life style, change the diet, and encouraged him to control at
puskesmas for the medication and he said..”yes…yes..” but at last he went
somewhere for smoking.damn!
Wait…….I am away
from the topic today. I should talk about what’s that mean by “The real costa”.
This time I would like to make some article for myself..just to remind me if in
case it is necessary.This topic today is actually one of a lesson for me especially a lesson about Love and Life.
I am not saying that today's topic is related to me..or could be related to someone i am closer with but really doesn't matter the thing is the topic still interesting for me.
Case I: "A" is one of an ambitious man which is very interested to travel around the world to gain his knowledge and also career. He travels lots since childhood,..graduated from another country and continue his study to another country which is means that he doesn't has any intention to try in his own land. He met many girls along his journey but only a few (can be counted) that able to come into his life. He is not a player even he is able with his good looking face and his attractiveness. But unfortunately, he was not going well with his previous relationship. Not because of the third party but they are not belong to be together..the one with the religious issue,..and the one with the family issue. Wow..complicated isn't he?
And finally, there is one girl he met in another time and of course not from the near countries. Which is.. she got everything. She can be called as "perfect mates". Good looking face, body, attitude, well educated, both supporting family to their relationship and..she is willing to follow him everywhere as well as his beliefs.
Right now, he is underestimate with this such perfect situation. He is really trauma from his previous relationship. Sometimes he forgets that Lord is always guide him and find the best for His man.
If we look into our past....It was really hurt when something we planned, protected, and survived to make it last is not going smoothly. But remember, God has create your mate from your bone,
costa. isn't it? and your costa is not going everywhere. The costa is made just for you to..live and end your time with.
Case 2: "B" just end up from her years of relationship. What a takes time for that relationship after all..more than 4 years considering her self as a "bitchy nun"..no bond from their relationship. Previously they were committed to their relationship to be strong, and always find a way to be together even got a plan to be together in a few months before their story end.
Some says their relationship end up due to pure LDR (long distance relationship),..some says due to "B'' left the relationship out of their commitment or vice versa who knows?. The easier way to say is "B" no longer comfort and found many disadvantages for her academic through that time.
During hard time of adaptation, B still learning to move on and achieve many happiness through her real principle, away from tears, no quarrel anymore but still on a progress to learn.
9 months after they broke up,.they met each other. They were quite shocked since never look into each other even conversation. The man already open his heart for someone else. "B" doesn't want to have any relationship with any man during the time..just let the fate guide her who is the "real costa" for her..it could be anyone else,it could be him, or maybe another persons surround her.
One day, the man asked her to be "back".
B is not thinking twice..but thousands. Deep in "B"'s heart. She still keeps the feeling.But during that time, "B" found that her life turn into miserable. Why?because suddenly she is upset..too much in her head. Y the man open his heart?y 'B's end up the relationship?y "B" needs to b back while she is now find a great of happiness?.
Finally, B refuse the offers. Because that is useless if back to the past where she can lost her happiness today, her principle, her amusement..even her own self. Furthermore, if a man really loves you he will not easily open his heart to any one else for any reason and any excuses.
-THE END-
